Wednesday, July 23, 2008

Good for a laugh


I just finished reading "Talk to the Snail" by British author Stephen Clarke. As an Expat living in France, I could really relate! His experiences about living in France and dealing with the French were quite funny. Even my husband had a laugh, and agreed that the book was pretty accurate.

Below are the chapters from this book:

1 Thou shalt be wrong (if you’re not French) – Why every Frenchman is Monsieur Right.
2 Thou shalt not work – Why long weekends are good for the French economy.
3 Thou shalt eat – Just because it smells of pig’s droppings doesn’t mean it’ll taste like them.
4 Thou shalt be ill – Getting the best out of the French national drug habit.
5 Thou shalt speak French– Fun ways to mispronounce words and offend people.
6 Thou shalt not sing (in tune, anyway) – A French artiste says, ‘pretentious, moi?’
7 Thou shalt not know – Don’t mention the war, nuclear power, tax or structural surveys.
8 Thou shalt not love thy neighbour – Oui, I am smoking into your dinner, et alors?
9 Thou shalt not be served – Garçon? Waiter? Bonjour? Oh, forget it.
10 Thou shalt be polite (and simultaneously rude) – Bonjour Madame, vous êtes une idiote.
11 Thou shalt say ‘I Love You’ – The perils of French-style amour.

So if you need a good laugh and have 10 euros to spare, check out this book!



Thursday, July 17, 2008

Mom to an 18 month old, and I'm still standing!

Today our baby girl is the big 1-8! She's hit all of the babycenter milestones, and then some. She's a bilingual baby, so her verbal skills are quite good considering. And she knows some sign language which really helps her to communicate. She's become a lot more affectionate now, giving hugs and kisses (even gave a kiss to some girl she played with at the park!). She can tell me when she is going potty, but is reluctant to sit on her little toilet. We'll be working on that a bit more in the upcoming months. She is good at feeding herself, and refuses to let anyone feed her! And she can sit in a booster seat now, like a big girl! L is quite active, and gets bored easily. She has zero patience, and can definitely throw a diva fit!

She tried fingerpainting for the first time today, and she loved it! The above pic is one of her masterpieces! Now that she's a bit older, I'm going to start doing more advanced activities with her. Dancing, singing, and reading can only go so far nowadays. I have to start getting creative!

I never thought that being a stay-at-home mom could be considered a real job, but it is! For as many hours as my husband is at work, I too am working at home with our daughter. Feeding, playing, reading, bathing....the list goes on. Even at night, I'm on duty. She still wakes up a couple of times every night (she actually woke up 5 times the other night) and I go and settle her down so she can sleep again. She's not the type of baby that will settle herself and go back to sleep (she rarely does that). Her sniffling will turn into crying, which will eventually turn into screaming. There is no way you can possibly ignore her, or hope that she will go back to sleep on her own. She's always been a difficult sleeper, but she's teething too so now it's even worse!

As much as I love my daughter and love being a mom, I feel worn out with having one child. I don't know how mothers with two or more do it! Although I feel like I would like to have another, I'm not sure when that will be. Maybe once she starts sleeping through the night? I don't know. But for now, I really have my hands full with little L.

I've been toying with the idea of putting her into daycare a couple of times a week. Not sure how she would react though. Another thing is....I don't want her to lose her English! Silly I know, as she will still hear lots of English from me. If we do put her into daycare, it won't be for another couple of months.

My husband got promotion at work, so his schedule has changed. We are looking to move a bit closer to where he works so that he can cut his travel time in half, and come home for lunch. If not, he'll barely see his daughter throughout the week.

So here's to our big girl who never ceases to amaze us. Happy 18 months little L! We LOVE you!!!!

Tuesday, July 08, 2008

Happy and Hopeful

My friend MM gave birth to a healthy baby boy on Friday the 4th of July. Yay!!! A little American baby! LOL! Not quite, mum is British and dad is French! =o) Little AL has an older sister MA who is about 6 weeks older than my daughter. We went to visit the family at the hospital on Saturday. It was such a nice feeling to see the happy family with their cute new addition. There's just something about a baby. Looking at little AL filled me with such happiness and peace. The experience reminded me how joyful I felt when my daughter was born. Just such an amazing feeling.

I am so happy for my friends and their adorable new addition! Of course I've offered to help with whatever they need. Now they have 2 kiddies under 2, so it's not going to be easy!

I must admit seeing my friend pregnant, and now with her new little boy.....I get the urge to have another baby as well. Probably won't happen anytime soon, but it is definitely on my mind. Even though it is hard for me to imagine sharing my love with another child, I know it is possible. And I think it would be nice for little L to have a brother or sister. However, my daughter is teething, wakes up every night between 2 and 4am, and is starting the tantrum phase (she's nearly 18 months and will literally lay on the floor and kick up a fuss!), so I would like for this to pass or at least get a bit better before trying for another.

Friday, July 04, 2008

Freedom of Speech


Awakened by dawn's early light
we live, we laugh, we love
adored and hated
feared and admired
unique and united
bleeding red, white, and blue
in the land of the free
and the home of the brave
I am proud to be...an American


I was feeling a bit patriotic and homesick when I wrote this. Can you tell?


To all you Yanks out there.....Happy 4th!!!!

Thursday, June 19, 2008

A day at the park

Today we went to a beautiful park in Belgium. Our daughter loved running on the grass, and chasing the birds and ducks. She seemed so happy and free. It warmed my heart watching her.

Even though there were other people around, it felt as though it was just us three. I truly cherish these family moments.

It's so nice to escape all the problems and fears, if only for a little while. I wish I could always have that feeling with me.